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Carol's avatar

I'm glad to see this article. I missed a couple of weeks. There will surely be times in the next couple of weeks when it will be useful, since I'm not good at bring empathetic.

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Susan G.S. Abel's avatar

Great article! This is an important skill to learn. I know as a parent of young children and a beginning teacher this is a skill I lacked. Validating feelings is definitely a superpower.

I would love to share your post on my newsletter (with its tiny circulation).

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Jack Freeman's avatar

Heck yes you can!

Thanks for the compliment.

It's been so interesting to me because I was so bad at validating. I was constantly invalidating my kids feelings and ideas - not maliciously - I genuinely thought I was helping.

I'm still learning but it's making a big difference in how I talk to them.

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